Body language; to make you look more self-confident.

 

Everything; that we use for communication, without verbal messages, can be considered body language. As it is more powerful, we can say that body language is louder than words. The whole set of communication techniques, such as hand movements, gestures, posture, look, and manners, represent who you are; as a person. Confidence or attitude is the norm verbal message, something which cannot touch; but is felt. When two people are identical in skills, experience, education, and all other qualifications, the only thing that they make different is their confidence.

Maintaining eye contact is crucial for a look more self-confident, as well as making people believe you and highlighting you are reliable, and have rapport. If you can describe the eye color of the person in front of you, then your eye contact is good. But don’t make feel the other person uncomfortable with your eyes. A genuine smile can unlock different doors of opportunity. So it is the best tip to be more confident. But keep in mind the timing and smile genuinely from your eyes and heart, not only with your mouth. If you are smiling the whole time, it is like wearing a facemask; then people will think that; you are not genuine. It is for the formal and the business setting, but for hospitality, it is typical to smile all the time. The best way is to smile a little bit of time, right after minutes of meeting someone.

The open body posture that the chest and hands are visible and don’t cover with hands or a bag; adds more value to your confident look. Reflect other person’s body movements and gestures, not only body language but wording or using the same kind of words is also a good tip. But if you do it immediately without taking some time, you will be a mirror. Understanding how your actions matter to others is also crucial. It is situational awareness. If you are grooming, then it will make your look presentable. To groom and impress a good look, you must take care of your body, hygiene, and eating habits and do sports or exercises.

Dressing for respect does a great job throughout the journey of looking confident. Note how our minds and actions change according to what we wear. It is the reason; for certain professionals wear uniforms, as, inside it, the mind is different. There is a saying, “dress up for the job that you want, not what you have.” It emphasizes that dressing up as the person you want to be, makes your mindset and leads to actions then; it will take you closer to that.

I hope that these small tips I figure out here will help you to look more self-confident and unlock doors of opportunities in your life. So be hurry to try them out with yourselves.

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-by Sashini Kamesha