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Photography is the art of capturing moments. It is also the science of creating images. There are so many areas, including the professional photography. I’m not an expert of the subject. So here, I talk about how to take nice photos, not just for posting on your social media but generally for your photo album. The most important thing in the photography is the lighting or the illumination. Sometimes you might look the best version of you. But if the lighting is poor or there are shadows over you, then there is no way to you look good in the picture. So it I essential to choose the best lighting. You can add flash or night effects at evening. But try to take photographs with day light. The best hour is the golden hour. When the sun sets, there is a soft light; which comes from the clouds. It make the picture really look gold. The direction of the light also plays a major role. Side lighting, which comes from the left or right of the object, is better for pleasant because it creates de...
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A solo date - I am alone, with me.


If I ask you a question about whom you love the most, you will give me an answer by mentioning a name. And if I ask you again who you love the most, you will answer me by the same name or someone else. He may not be your lover, but a family member. But I emphasize that you have chosen the wrong person to love the most. What did I mean by that? The one who knows the most about you should love you the most. So could there be someone who knows more about you than you do? In this article, I am bringing you a way to teach you how to enjoy your life with yourself.

Whether you are single, in a relationship, or "it’s complicated", it’s always important to treat yourself and get to know yourself a bit better. And the best way to do that is through a solo date. Life is not all about being in relationships. Even if you are in one, it doesn’t mean that you change, or that time apart isn’t important too. A solo date is a perfect way to celebrate all things you.

A solo date is simply a form of self-care but in the style of a date. Just this time, you are on your own. A perk of that is that there’s no awkwardness in deciding what to do please both parties, as you are the only one in question. Whatever you do, you do it solo. It could be going to a cafe with a book and some cake, going out for dinner, a walk or even to the cinema. The whole point is that you treat yourself to something that you love doing. In a relationship, you probably got together because you have similar interests, but that doesn’t mean that you have exactly the same interests. Going on a solo date means you can enjoy a hobby or activity that the other doesn’t so you don’t have to stop it altogether.


What stops a lot of people from doing this is that they think they’ll be judged for being on their own. If you make it obvious you’re there with a purpose or even take a book or a laptop as a distraction item, it’s unluckily that you’ll be bothered at all. It’s literally your chance to live out as the main character, instead of supporting in the background.


For the first solo date, go somewhere you’re comfortable with, or where you might see a familiar face. You don’t have to plan something particularly long if the idea makes you nervous. Another way to solo date is to attach it to another activity. Say you’ve gone to a cafe to work - stick around after you’re done and grab yourself some Victoria Sponge and hot chocolate. No one will bat an eyelid to you if you’ve been there working already.


The most important relationship in your life is the one you have with yourself. But thanks to daily distractions, work, friends, and family it is getting harder and harder to spend quality time by ourselves. So if you are long overdue for a catch-up with your mind, body, and soul, I recommend you schedule a solo date. 


All images are copied from the internet.(https://www.pexels.com)

- by Sashini Kamesha

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