Getting attracted to
someone is an entertaining topic that is romantic as well. The interesting
behind here is; we can express whether we like somebody without verbal messages
but only by our body language.
The first sign is
blushing or flushing by getting pink cheeks. It happens when the blood flows
into the skin and makes the cheeks look pink. As this is a physiological
process, it depends on the structure of the face and skin. Some people
naturally blush more obviously than others. When a person is flushing at you
than his natural look, it might be he is shy around you or gets attracted to
you.
Having an open body is
another sign. When people feel insecure around you, they sit with their arms or
feet crossed or create a physical barrier with a glass of drinking or something
else in the front. But when someone feels security, he opens up his body to
have no barriers between you and him. That means they are getting attracted to
you.
Leaning forward means
physically bringing himself closer to you. Once somebody gets interested in the
conversation or the attraction increases, the person goes to open up his body
and leans forward or comes closer to you.
While in the
conversation, pay attention to where others’ feet are pointing. It is something
done subconsciously, but interesting to observe how feet tell a lot more about
the person than what his body or mouth is telling. Our feet are in a way that
either takes us to where we want to reach or away from where we are not willing
to be. In a conversation, if you notice that another’s feet are pointing toward
you, it means they are attracted to you. When someone is seated closer to you
and their body leaning towards you, but their feet are pointing in the opposite
you have to understand whether they want to leave the conversation.
In business etiquette,
to establish trust or rapport with someone, you have to make a certain level of
eye contact. But when someone is gazing into your eyes in a social setting, it
means that they are attracted to you. Sometimes the person can’t control the
process and may feel that he can’t take his eyes off you. It means he is
looking at you and trying to absorb the whole picture without missing any
detail of your appearance or general look. It is crucial where eyes look
because it tells how they are attracted. If they look at your eyes, nose, and
above, it indicates they are interested in what you are saying. But when the
gaze goes below your lips, chin, neck, and chest, it means they are
romantically attracted.
Dilated pupils mean
when hearts come out of eyes with a smiley face. It happens because the body
releases hormones like oxytocin and dopamine, and they dilate pupils and look
like being in love with someone that can get enough of looking at them. In
romantic restaurants, they light up a candle and place it between the two
people for helping to dilate pupils.
When somebody is
attracted to you, they try to give you a light and unintentional touch at any
chance get first. It might be touching your hand, your elbow, or your arm. It
is a habit for some people when they talk to someone to give a touch to the
person to get attention. But it is very different the feel that internally this
is something that comes out of habit or something that gets to be closer to
you. The higher the touch on your arm is more intermit. That is why the
handshake is the universal formal method of greeting, only touching the hand.
Once the touch goes above the elbows, upper arm, and shoulders, it becomes more
intermit and romantic.
Smiling in a very
genuine way is another sign. When the person smiling not only has the mussels
around the mouth contracted such that you get to see their teeth but also that
they have the wrinkles around their eyes, it is a genuine one. Remember how you
can’t stop your smile when you think of someone who is in your heart? It’s a
genuine smile.
When someone tries to
make you laugh or laugh at your jokes, it intermits and means he’s attracted to
you and wants you to feel good around him. Why laughing is a sign of attraction
is because when laughing with people, we create good memories and emotions.
Mirroring means
repeating or reflecting someone’s body language, posture, or tone of voice.
That is usually done in a business context when people want to establish good
relationships. But in a social setting, you should know it indicates that they
are attracted to you.
It doesn’t mean that
all these signs will be obvious, but if you notice some, you might get a clue
that the person is attracted to you. And similar, you can show some of them
which indicate that you are attracted to him.
All images are copied from the internet.(https://www.pexels.com)
- by Sashini Kamesha
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